As our very existence depends on God alone, we must be independent of the value of others, the opinions of others, the demands of others.
To detach yourself emotionally from irritating people and situations, first you have to identify yourself with the standards of the person who is creating the irritation. Suppose you are in your office and somebody is creating unnecessary problems. If you get angry with him, that will not solve the problem. Instead, you will be tortured inwardly by your anger and outwardly by the person. If you allow yourself to become angry, you will only lose your own inner strength. But if you come down to the standard of that person and identify with him, you will see that he himself is very unhappy and therefore wishes consciously or unconsciously to make others unhappy as well.
Is there any human being
Who is not the embodiment
Of opposing realities?
Avand in vedere ca existenta noastra depinde doar de Dumnezeu, trebuie sa fim independenti de valorile celorlalti, de opiniile celorlalti, de cererile celorlalti.
Pentru a te detasa emotional de situatiile si oamenii iritanti, in primul rand trebuie sa te identifici cu standardul persoanei care creeaza iritarea. Sa spunem ca esti la birou si cineva iti creeaza probleme inutile. Daca te enervezi pe el, asta nu va rezolva problema. In schimb, vei fi torturat in interior de furia ta si in exterior de persoana. Daca devii manios, doar iti vei pierde propria tarie interiora.. Dar daca cobori la standardul acelei persoane si te identifici cu ea, vei vedea ca ea insasi este foarte nefericita si de aceea in mod constient sau inconstient vrea sa-i faca si pe altii nefericiti.
Exista vreo fiinta umana
Care nu este intruparea
Realitatilor opuse?
Sri Chinmoy
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